Hubby and I always vote by mail in for the national elections. Tonight is the night. We sit down, each with our open ballot and pencils in hand. Bob gets on the laptop and looks up all of the propositions and exactly what it means if we vote yes or no. Then, he researches any other info or clarification and we discuss it. We mostly vote the same as after being together almost 40 years, we pretty much have the same ideas. But, there are many times we DO vote differently after debating the issues. It works for us! And, gotta get those ballots in!